About Us
Who We Are
We’re Claire, Jaz, and Nina—three women who met as randomly assigned roommates at a private university outside Philly and turned that accident into the most brutally honest friendship of our lives. Claire (Tampa, by way of Connecticut) is the Disney-loving, pink-wearing, sugar-baby-curious sweetheart who asks the wildest questions and lives for real answers. Jaz (now in Seattle, originally from Texas) went from beer tub girl to actuary, lived through dead-end relationships, ran an OnlyFans, and finally found joy with a 52-year-old man who celebrates every inch of her. Nina (NYC, originally from California) is the no-nonsense lawyer who talks like she’s got it all figured out—until two drinks in and a few bad decisions deep. Together, we didn’t just support each other—we dared each other to grow, get real, and stop performing.
Be Your Sexy is our way of paying that forward.
How we got started
It came together like this: we were visiting Claire in Tampa for Beyoncé, drinking on her porch until dawn, when the conversation turned—like it always does—with three women and too much wine. We started venting about the massive, exhausting gap in how women’s sexuality is discussed, perceived, and policed. We’ve been told how to think, feel, and behave by lovers, friends, family, and the world. But what if we hadn’t met each other? What if we didn’t have that voice in our lives—the one that wasn’t just a devil on the shoulder, but a permission slip to be exactly who we are? Sometimes we pushed each other with dares, sometimes with bribes, sometimes with hard love—but it was always in service of the same thing: getting back to ourselves, on our own terms. That night, we realized we had something too powerful to keep to ourselves—so we built it.
What we do
Since college, we’ve each grown into our own lives—new cities, new careers, and new circles of friends, colleagues, and late-night confession partners. Along the way, we’ve seen just how often society limits how women are allowed to think, feel, and speak about their sexuality. But here’s our shared secret: we’re all addicted to learning. Whether it’s from resources, research, stories, or straight-up failure—we believe in collecting the truths that help us live better. That’s what this site is built on. Be Your Sexy brings together everything we’ve craved: honest stories, practical advice, raw confessions, and tools that help women stop waiting for permission and start stepping into their own desire—with courage.
We’re also not above giving you a little extra push. Whether it’s curated dares, praise, encouragement, or even financial motivation—we’ll help you find another reason to do what you already want to do anyway. Because sometimes the only thing standing between you and your next breakthrough is a challenge from someone who believes in you.
So this is part passion project, part reason for us to keep doing what we love to do. It gives us a reason to keep learning, and to share what we uncover. We love hearing stories, trading experiences, and pulling real wisdom from success and failure. This site is where all of that comes together.
Get Involved
At BeYourSexy.com, we believe that everyone can benefit, lend a hand, or ideally do both by engaging with our platform. Participation can be as straightforward as sharing personal experiences and insights or as involved as helping us create content based on those experiences. For those looking to dive deeper, there’s an opportunity to join our team and find personal confidence through active engagement. We prioritize privacy and authenticity, ensuring that our community has a secure and comfortable environment to communicate openly. Our approach is designed to respect each member's privacy while fostering a setting that encourages genuine and safe exchanges.
